August 5, 2021
During July of 2021, the Probate and Family Court in Massachusetts announced the suspension of Probate and Family Court Standing Order 2-16: Parent Education Program Attendance. As of September 1, 2021, programs will no longer be required before obtaining a divorce or paternity action in Massachusetts. The Court further stated, “Parents in divorce cases filed as of July 12, 2021 will not be required to submit a parent education certificate. Parents in divorce cases filed until July 11, 2021 will be required to submit a parent education certificate before September 1, 2021.”
As a program administrator who observed over 250 hours of program class time and who talked with many parents before and after their participation, I am disappointed with the Court’s decision to suspend all programs. Countless parents told me directly how valuable this class was to them and to their families.
Fortunately, the Probate and Family Court still offers a variety of positive and helpful services for families, including but not limited to:
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I feel strongly that the mandatory parent education program was a gift disguised as a requirement. Families experiencing divorce or paternity concerns deserve equal access to guidance and education as they restructure their families, learn how to co-parent responsibly, and face difficult decisions. Sometimes a nudge is needed to point someone in the right direction.
I recently reviewed over 200 program evaluations that parents completed after attending a parent education program with MWI.
Given what we heard from parents, and our belief that these programs help parents and children, MWI has decided to continue offering programs to parents as part of MWI’s Good Divorce Project.
MWI’s Better Parent Program, starting September 22, 2021, will be optional and aims to help divorcing and separating parents:
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No parent makes the decision to divorce or separate lightly. I also know that such big decisions, that have a lifetime effect on children, can be supported. Moving forward, as the Court considers the future of parent education programs, it is my hope that parents will voluntarily participate in divorce support programming and find value in it.
“Nothing teaches a child more than a parent who is willing to learn.”
For more information, click here or contact MWI’s Better Parent Program at 617-895-4028.
This blog post was written by MWI’s Director of Mediation Services, Josh Hoch. Josh is a mediator, ombuds, instructor, mentor, and facilitator. He brings over 20 years of mediation experience to his work as a divorce and family mediator. To schedule time with Josh, click here.